As the only wage earner in her family, Gloria Tanko provides for her three children and 10 of her nephews and nieces after she lost four siblings – one in an accident, three to AIDS.
Then there are her aging parents, as well as her only remaining sister who can't find a job and often relies on her for a little money. Gloria often finds it difficult to cope.
"The first death came when my brother had an accident in 2003. Then there were three sicknesses – all my three younger sisters and their husbands have died.
They have left behind 13 children. All are here living in my father's compound save for three who are with my brother's widow.
I am the only wage earner in the family. My basic salary is 20,000 naira a month [US $150]. It is not enough for our needs.
I get up every day at 5 a.m. By 7 a.m. I am leaving the house so that I am in the work place by 8 or 8.30 each day.
I work as a government health worker – I am a community health officer in an ante-natal clinic taking care of pregnant women.
If there is an emergency, someone in the family calls me and I have to rush back straightaway to help.
My father is over 70 and my mother is in her 60s. They have always been farmers. They still have a farm which they work, but it is not like before as their strength is not there.
Sometimes when my father gets up to go to the farm, he just picks up his hoe and starts crying because of what has happened.
There is no one helping me [financially], so I find it very difficult at times. At times I have had to go and beg at the school so that the children could stay in class until I get my salary.
My parents, too, if they have any small thing we put it together to help pay for their school fees.
Of the orphans, the oldest is 25, he helps on the farm, though he has only just completed his secondary school education. The youngest is five. All of the children are in school.
One of the older ones wants to go study more [beyond secondary school], but it depends what it costs. He may not end up studying what he wants, rather what I can afford.
My father worked hard to send me, my brother and my four sisters to school. He wanted us to be trained. He educated all of us.
He always dreamed of going to Jerusalem. But how can he now go to Jerusalem with all these orphans around?
There is nobody helping me. Only God, then myself."
Reuters