by bettyboop » Thu Jun 29, 2006 1:26 pm
I am quit baffled by this post, is it that i am misunderstanding you? or you have not put the point across properly? which ever it is, here is my reply and pls feel no attack on your person for this.
#Yes many ladies are decieved by men into thinking they are loved. But this is 2006 women have changed and i find alot of men are now getting a taste of their own medicine.
#i dont see how you can drwa relations to the increase in aids to the first listed point you stated. Bcos at the end of the day, not just ppl believeing they inlove fall into the trap of getting aids. Mind you these days lots of ppl get together be itone nite stands, shag partners(purely based on the physical ,mutual adults) infidelity in marriages, where you see some men shag about and infect their innocent unsuspecting wives.(vise versa)
#You say is it bcos of the lackdaisal attitude of the woman? NO
OR smartly attitude of the male? NO (no smart man would have sex with out protection, apart from the 18 years of child support that can come about, there is the deadly aids/hiv and other deadlies out there. )
basically so much is done in the name of love,it is up to ht e individuals to protect their interest in this partnership. When your investment in love is too high, then the risk is equally enourmous. Anyone who lets themsleves become a walk over should not cry about how hard done by they are by ''love''